How to Make Someone Fall in Love with you
HOW TO MAKE SOMEONE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU
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WARNING
This book
is not for playboys or any person with bad intension . It is for those people who love someone but not
able to tell her/ him about their feeling to them because of fear of losing
them .
Table of Content
1.
Looking
Rich VS Looking Good
2.
The
Magic of Making Eye contact
3. Sigma male the man every girl want
4.
Be
Irresistible: How to Effortlessly Attract Women and Women Can’t Resist
7.
The Secret to Seductive Communication
8. How to pass the women test
10.
Secret
tricks to make her love you
11.
How
to know what girl want
Looking Rich VS Looking
Good
“Asshole”
is a term that most men (and people…) want to avoid like the plague.
There are
just a host of negative connotations that come with it, and let’s face it,
they are
sometimes true.
But work
and relationship contexts aside, the worst part of the term “asshole” is
the way
that women use it to describe a man that takes charge and isn’t afraid to
offend
others with his opinions. It’s almost as if assertive is interchangeable with
asshole at
times, and it’s a shame.
But I’m
here to tell you that there are zero absolutely differences between being
assertive
and an asshole, and that you should never be afraid to be assertive and
have your
opinion heard.
I’ve met
far too many men that simply don’t like confrontation or to rock the
boat –
that’s a dangerous slippery slope because it can be so gradual that you
eventually
find yourself mute in the relationship.
Wait, since
when is it being an asshole to just say what’s on your mind, or even
what your
preferences might be?
Assholes
prod and provoke to make a point, which are often punctuated by
emotional
outbursts and accusations. Women have no issues responding to logic,
so if you
approach them on that level in an assertive manner, you will have their
attention,
respect, and never be called an asshole.
Assholes
also tend to make points that aren’t related to the actual point, which is
mostly a
matter of twisting the knife that they can sometimes wield. Not
pleasant.
Tell me
what you think women like: a passive man who bends to her every
whim and is
essentially whipped… or a strong man that isn’t a doormat, who
forces them
to respect them, can take charge when necessary, and can be equals
with them.
Hint: it’s not the first one.
So embrace
assertiveness, because it is easy to do so without being a raging
asshole.
The Magic of Making Eye contact
The first
step is
Relax.
Narrow and tense eye's tend to convey a negative or angry disposition, so do
your best to maintain your calm. A calm demeanor will put people at ease and
make them feel more comfortable speaking with you then Glance casually in her
direction. Every so often, gaze over at her. Does she seem to be trying to make
eye contact with you?
Don't
stare. Staring at people is not only rude, but it also makes people feel very
uncomfortable. If you don't catch her eye, she may be uninterested or
preoccupied. Even worse, she may be offended that you are staring.
If someone
is unwilling to make eye contact with you, or seems to be avoiding it, this may
be an indicator that she is not interested in speaking or meeting you.
Meet her
gaze with a smile. If the two of you make eye-contact, be sure to relax and
smile. Again, an easy smile will make people feel more comfortable
Avoid
examining her. Looking intensely at a person--even when eye contact has been established--can
be rude and intimidating, even demeaning.
Try to read
her facial expression. Although this is highly subjective and is in no way a
perfect science, do your best to interpret any expression she may have made.
Did she return the smile? Or, did she politely nod? A smile may be an indicator
of interest, while a nod just the opposite. Blinking or batting of the eyes can
also be an indicator of interest.
Did she
raise her eyebrows? This can be a way of saying hello or communicating further
interest.
Were her
eyes wide open? This can be a way of communicating happiness or joy, even a
feeling of ease.
Did she
seem to be lowering her chin, appearing to be looking up at you? This too can
be a sign that she may be interested in meeting you.
Let her be
the first to break eye contact. Don't look away until she does. This will
communicate that you are interested in speaking to her.
The longer
she maintains eye contact, the more likely it is that she may be interested in
meeting you.
Continue to
look. After she breaks eye contact with you, continue looking in her general
direction for another second or two. If she looks back, make eye contact with
her once again and smile.
If she
looks back, it may be an indicator that she is interested in meeting and/or
speaking to you.
Now I give
you some tips to help you to overcome fear of making eye contact
1.
Practice
your smile in the mirror. This may sound silly, but if you aren't in the
practice of making eye contact with people, then you might not be in the practice
of producing a gentle gaze or smile. You may not actually be
"staring" at someone, but the look on your face may suggest
otherwise. This can make people feel very uneasy.
Being
stared at makes people feel uncomfortable and will make them want to avoid eye
contact. Be sure to avoid making facial expressions that would suggest you are
examining or critiquing a person.
Practicing
your smile in the mirror will also help you get over any feeling of
intimidation of shyness that you may experience when making direct eye contact.
2.
Look at
portraits of people. Get used to making direct eye contact by practicing on a
few portraits. This may feel awkward at first, but that is the point. You want
to continue to work through any feeling of awkwardness that you may experience
while looking people in the eye.
You can
even do this while flipping through magazines or while browsing the internet.
3.
Practice
making eye contact with the television. As you watch your favorite television
show, practice making direct eye contact with the characters as if they are
real people speaking directly to you. Follow their eyes as they move around the
screen.
4.
Go see a
public speaker. It is a lot easier to make and maintain eye contact with an
individual when you are listening instead of speaking. Furthermore, being part
of a group may help alleviate any anxiety. Practice making eye contact with
someone delivering a speech or public address.
Even when
the speaker is not looking at you directly, practice looking at their eyes
5.
Engage in
short conversations with people you don't know. Maintaining eye contact for a
long period of time can be uncomfortable or difficult, so start with short
conversations with the grocery clerk, your neighbor, even a co-worker. The point
is not to engage in a deep or meaningful conversation, but to practice making
eye contact with a real person for short periods of time.
As you feel
more-and-more comfortable, try increasing the length of the discussions.
Sigma male the man every girl wants
A sigma
male has a veil of mystery around him, which makes him intriguing. It's hard to
ignore his intelligence and independence. Sigmas never follow the crowd and
don't seek approval. This is what makes this type so appealing to both men and
women.
1. True leader
The Sigma
male has all the qualities to acquire Alpha’s dominance, but he prefers his
freedom rather than being tied to the leadership position. He would rather work
independently, but even if he ends up being a leader, he doesn’t continue for
long because he doesn’t enjoy being bound to any social structure. His main
strengths are that he doesn’t have to prove a point and he doesn’t create a
drama unnecessarily.
2. Freedom lover
A Sigma man
cannot follow the norms that an Alpha male loves, and he is not trying to
conform to them. This is not necessarily because he has anything against the
leadership of the Alpha male; it’s because Sigma men value their freedom more
than anything.
3.
Mysterious type
The Sigma
male is completely mysterious, and he doesn’t talk much. He has a strong
personality that he demonstrates occasionally, and then he retreats into his
world. This behavior piques the curiosity of the opposite sex, and women want
these men bad
4. Solo
player
The Sigma
male is not always a team player. Instead, he sets his standards and walks his
path. He chooses his own game and picks his own rules to play. This is how he
stands apart from the rest of the crowd.
However,
this does not mean that he can’t work with others when he needs to! When Sigma
men find like-minded people who share their vision, they can achieve
extraordinary things in business or relationships.
5.
Observer
He is a
smart observer. His careful observation usually leads to thorough analysis,
which makes him a better judge of situations and people. It doesn’t mean that
he doesn’t make mistakes, but when he does, he is quicker to learn from them
than other men may be.
There are
many more points but let move how you can become sigma male
Hard To
Get.
Sigma males
are hard to get, meet, and even see sometimes. Most of time they have some of
their work because they love to learn new things and work on their goals.
However, this makes them so attractive because they don’t care about women,
they focus on their work and that makes women frustrating. Such as most of the
guys are behind these beautiful women, but Sigma males don’t even care to look
back. At the end, it makes women chase them.
These males
most of time live alone but they are not lovely, they choose to stay alone.
They try to explore everything in their own way. They love to follow their own
path but as they put a lot of time in learning; it helps them to choose best
path for themselves. These males try to live independently from their
childhood. Because of these reasons, they have only few friends and Most of the
times; they stay away from others.
Don’t
Speak A Lot.
Sigma males
speak a lot less. They try to speak less, but only what is necessary. Talking
much seems to them as work and wasting their energy. Because they talk less, it
provides time to their mind to think, which makes them intelligent and
sometimes they find some amazing ideas. These males try to use their brain more
than their mouth. It helps them to come up with brilliant solutions. Meanwhile,
As they talk less, they get time to listen to others which makes their
communication reliant and immersive.
At the end,
they are superb listener which helps them in understanding others easily. They
like to stay away from society but as they speak less and they are good
listeners, it makes so easy for them to mix-up with society again.
Have
their own look.
Sigma males
didn’t have problem regards fashion, they are appropriate to their look. They
know what clothes or what styles suits them and they didn’t like to follow
trends. Even when they found something worst being in trend, they become
frustrating related to that. They prefer to wear things those looks good even
those are not in trend. However, most of the times, they wear clothes which are
comfortable rather stylish. Sometimes, Sigma males have a signature style
element they wear often such as their favorite watch, shoes, bracelet or hat.
Respectful.
Sigma males
are respectful towards others, but they know who they need to respect. They
don’t judge people by being with them for 1-2 weeks. Most of the times, they
try to find some good things about others and learn those good things to
develop themselves. This habit makes them even more smart in the long term. They
try to respect everyone equally, but sometimes they respect people more who
need it other than people who don’t. Because of their respectful &
understanding nature towards others, their cultures, beliefs and works, other
people also respect them in return.
Fit
Anywhere.
Sigma Males
are intelligent and adaptive, so if they need, they fit anywhere. It is easy
for them to be a good friend of anyone and understand anyone. People feel
comfortable with them and like to share their secrets and personal things with
them. For sigma males, it’s easy to become a part of any club, team and
partnership.
Rebel.
These male
types are rebels. They try to make their own rules and live their life by their
own way. They leave society and other’s thoughts behind as they try to live
their life themselves differently. Sigma males didn’t like to follow what
others are doing, it makes their life boring. They try to travel and live
somewhere they want. They try to start their own businesses for converting
their crazy ideas into reality. Sometimes, Society or their relatives try to
interfere to prove sigma males wrong but in the end whatever they want, they
make it reality. These males are pretty positive and because of their learning
habit, they crack probably all difficulties.
Aware of
purpose.
Sigma Males
have their purpose and they like to work on their goals and motives. Most of
the time they are ready to sacrifice their fun for their work, which makes them
tremendously successful. Sigma males feel incomplete without a purpose in their
life and until they didn’t find it they are always on a hunt. However, which
makes them successful in their adult ages. Because they don’t like to follow
society, their goals & purpose differ completely from others but they are
kind enough to take part in charity works. After becoming successful, they help
others as much as they can so that others also get success in their lives as
well.
There are
one more type of males you can choose which is best for you let move to next
type of males
Be Irresistible: How to
Effortlessly Attract Women and Women
Can’t Resist
1.
Physical: Women are
not as superficial as men, but they are still superficial. Looks matter, to an
extent, and all other things being equal few women would prefer a guy with a
frail Gollum frame over a guy who resembles Daniel Craig in a James Bond beach
scene.
Similarly,
men treat other men differently depending on how they look. After I began
bulking up, I noticed considerably less "crap" from other guys at
bars and clubs. No more interrupting my conversations, bumping into me without
apologizing, creeping on girls I had brought with me.
How to bulk
up? I employed something I call the "prison workout." It's
phenomenally simple: 120 good push-ups per day (this means keeping your back
and legs straight, like a plank), which can be broken up into three sets of 40 throughout
the day, and 80 crunches.
Like in a
prison, this is a simple routine that could be performed in a cell (or office
cubicle, as the case may be), without the aid of an expensive personal trainer,
posh gym membership, or any special equipment.
Also like
in a prison, do this every day -- pretend that time is of the essence. If you
were in prison, you'd want to bulk up as soon as possible to avoid problems
with the other inmates, right? And eat more protein. Cut out all of the things
that you know are bad for your metamorphosis into an alpha male: that means no
more comfort foods. Office cupcakes, Dunkin' Donuts, and milkshakes are all in
your rearview mirror from now on.
2.
Financial: Most
women are not strictly speaking gold-diggers, and most men don't really care
how much you have in your brokerage account... But all other things being
equal, we'd all prefer to hang out with someone who is affluent over someone
who pinches pennies.
Cut your
expenses until you reach a point where you can meet your obligations (rent, car
payment, etc.) comfortably without it occupying much of your time. I don't know
why this is the case, and its beyond the scope of this blog post, but people
are very good at sensing financial anxiety in others -- if you're terrified you
won't be able to make ends meet, potential business partners (and potential
mates) can pick up on it.
An alpha
male always knows he has enough. And if he doesn't, he does whatever it takes
-- within reason -- to improve his financial standing.
3. Status: While I don't think you should
define yourself solely by what you do, certain professions are off-limits for
those serious about becoming alpha males -- and there are even some professions
that can quicken the transformation from beta to alpha. I'm not saying you need
to become a hedge fund manager or play for the Miami Heat, but you do need to
eventually find a career that is congruent with your new goal to become alpha
within your defined social group or city.
If your job
requires constant public supplication to others, it's a beta job. You cannot
easily become a true alpha male if your 9 to 5 is working as a porter at a
five-star hotel -- taking crap from snobby tourists all day -- or if you scrub
feet at a day spa.
Some
service industry jobs are great for budding alphas, though: some of the most
alpha guys I know work as bartenders, for example. Although you are responding
to customer requests, you are also the "alpha" over a set domain --
your bar -- and few men will challenge your status or try to overtake you as
the bartender!
This qualities women most like in any man if you originally become sigma male or alpha male you can attract any girl easily
Unattractive Behaviors
A handful
of “pickup artists” and the such have come across what appears
to be a
paradox. A paradox centred on whether certain actions communicate
desirable
traits, such as confidence and dominance, or undesirable traits, such as
neediness.
For
example, should you approach beautiful women directly, an action that
communicates
confidence and dominance? Or does approaching women directly
make it
seem as though you are needy and overly attracted to them, lowering
your
perceived status and value as a male? Is it, for this reason, better to
approach
women indirectly, in order to make it seem as though you are
indifferent
and don’t rely upon the approval of women for your happiness, which
could be
perceived as more masculine and powerful?
The
solution to this paradox lies not in what you actions communicate at
face value,
but what your actions communicate about your overall attitude.
One example
of this is telling other people — especially women — of your
accomplishments.
Seeking to impress. At face value, it would seem that this
action
makes you seem to be a high-value male who is successful and has
achieved
great things. In this particular example, however, we know that this is
never the
case. People see what is being sub-communicated, and the subcommunication in
this example is clear. The person feels inadequate and
insecure,
and as a result, resorts to bragging and trying to impress others to boost
his or her
self-esteem.
When it
comes to women, women are especially attuned to what a man’s
actions
sub-communicate. So while other men might scoff at the idea of
approaching
a woman directly, taking it at face value and seeing it as an
“uncool”
act of desire and neediness, women see the sub-communication. That if
a man
directly approaches her, he doesn’t care too much about rejection. He is
super
confident and isn’t afraid of being rejected.
Similarly,
continuing this example, women see what is being subcommunicated by the
opposite action: Approaching her indirectly. They see
what this
action sub-communicates, that the man is afraid of rejection and is too
scared to
approach her directly for fear of rejection, preferring to instead take the
safer route
and masquerade as a friend.
So when it
comes to women, focus not on what your actions communicate
at face
value, but on what they sub-communicate.
For
example, when women test their men — by indirectly insulting or
challenging
them — many men react in a way that they think shows attractive
traits.
One example
might be a woman looking at your rather unimpressive car
and saying,
“That’s what you drive?”
Many men
would respond in a way that shows value (i.e. attractive traits)
at face
value . Something like, “Yeah, but I’m buying a Porsche next year.”
In this
examples, most of us guys would be impressed — wow, he’s
buying a
Porsche next year? Impressive! But for women, the sub-communication
is clear.
The guy felt challenged by her and so felt the need to impress her to
make up for
it. The guy is insecure about his car and feels inadequate around
women. Her
comment got under his skin.
He might
also say something like, “Yeah, well I don’t like to waste
money.” The
sub-communication is the same. He feels that he needs to explain
why he has
an unimpressive car.
A truly
confident and attractive man would simply not care. He couldn’t
care less
about what anyone thinks about his car. He doesn’t feel any need to
prove
himself. As a result, he’d either just ignore her or respond by turning it
into a bit
of a joke. “Yep, that’s my car! It struggles to get up hills so make sure
you’re
ready to jump out and push! You’re strong enough for that, right?”
While this
might seem self-defeatist or unattractive at face value, it is just
the
opposite. When it comes to women, a response like the last example
demonstrates
that you simply don’t care. That you feel no need to prove
yourself.
That you are rock solid confident in yourself. That you don’t feel
inadequate
in any way, shape or form. That you are completely indifferent to her
challenging
and testing you.
This is
also often why women feel such strong attraction for jerks. Nice
guys wonder
in disbelief why on earth this is. Bad boys and jerks treat women
like shit,
yet women seem to love it? Meanwhile, nice guys shower their women
in gifts
and lavish dates, yet get no action? How on earth is this?
Once again,
it’s all about sub-communication.
By
showering their women in gifts and lavishly wining and dining them
for months,
nice guys think that they are showing women what great men they
are and
that they are great guys and can look after her (i.e. be a provider). Nice
guys think
that this shows that they are a high-value male and that this means
women
should feel attraction for them. Unfortunately for nice guys, the exact
opposite
happens.
Meanwhile,
by treating their women like shit and oftentimes being
complete
assholes, jerks and bad boys sub-communicate that they feel they are
high-value
males. The sub-communication is that they are of superior status and
value, that
they are super confident, dominant, and emotionally strong and
indifferent.
That they have nothing to prove and that women should be lucky
they spend
any time with them at all. All of this sub-communicates that they are
very
high-value and very confident. And women love this.
It all comes down to sub-communication
Women love confident guys.
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